Maggie’s Thought for the Month: Goodbyes Are Okay

The word ‘good-bye’, when said, can create a myriad of emotions. One may feel devastated if it involves never seeing someone they love again, or it may create a sense of freedom because someone’s departure may mean a new chapter in their life.

When I received Maggie as a puppy, the veterinarian shared this advice- ‘Never say goodbye when you leave the house, say I’ll be back.’ I followed that advice until the day Maggie crossed the Rainbow Bridge- then I had to say goodbye. At first, it wasn’t okay, but then I realized saying goodbye is okay. Sometimes we need to say goodbye to move forward with our life. It doesn’t make the memories less significant or memorable, and it doesn’t mean your love wasn’t true.

Many people fear the word goodbye, because it may mean entering unfamiliar territory. It may seem easier to stay in a state of drama or hurt; it becomes the norm. Maybe those who view the word goodbye as a chance to begin again are the lucky ones- for they see every end has a new beginning. And maybe goodbye doesn’t mean forever, just an ‘until we meet again’.

I have enjoyed writing Maggie’s Thought of the Month, and will cherish the kind words from people who have purchased her book, ‘Paws & Reflect’. Today’s post will be Maggie’s last. I can’t think of a better date to choose, as April 1st is Maggie’s birthday. She would have been ten years old today. I had to say goodbye to Maggie when she was five years old. Some day, I’ll say hello again.

Paws & Reflect

Travels with Sissy: Old Sturbridge Village

They say the best way to teach someone is to show them. If you want to teach your children what life was like in New England during the early 1800’s, then a visit to Old Sturbridge Village is a must.

Old Sturbridge Village is located in Sturbridge, Massachusetts. It is at the intersections of I-90 (Mass. Pike) and I-84, just an hour west of Boston.   In 2016,  the village celebrated its 70th Anniversary. Old Sturbridge Village is set on more than 200 acres; and includes a Center Village, Mills Area, and Countryside.

The village logo, a grasshopper, was established about ten years after the first year of opening. In ancient folk belief, the grasshopper originated by being ‘sprung from the soil’. Old Sturbridge Village has sprung from the soil over the past 70 years. It has grown from a Center Village with a few small buildings, to over 40 structures. Most of the structures are restored buildings, while some are authentic reconstructions.

The entrance to Old Sturbridge Village begins as a quiet, back-road entranceway passing streams and wildlife. The free parking area has a picnic area and plenty of room for larger vehicles, such as RV’s and buses. The admission area has visitors feeling welcomed with friendly staff. Upon purchasing your tickets, all & any questions are answered to help you enjoy your visit to the village.

 

A good pair of walking shoes is highly recommended, as there were no paved roads in the 1800’s. The self-guided tour usually takes between three and a half to four hours. Good eyesight and a good sense of smell may also come in handy, as farm animals walk the same paths as the visitors. Throughout the village, workers dressed in period clothing encourage visitors to ask questions & take pictures.

Old Sturbridge Village is a working village. Employees dress in period clothing and are completing tasks that needed to be done during this time period, in a New England town. You can visit the tin man, pottery maker, cobbler, or even watch as ladies prepare meals over the fire- while swatting flies away from bread & bacon. Special events take place daily, such as the sawing of logs in the lumber mill, wagon rides, or firing canons on the 4th of July.  The village website provides constant updates to plan your trip according to these special activities.

The village provides educational programs for homeschoolers, scout activities and even overnight stays for youth events. There are internships available, and many programs during the summer to keep children entertained, while being educated. If you have little ones, and wondering if one day will be too much to see the entire village, no worries. The admission ticket allows your return to the village within ten days for a free second visit.

Old Sturbridge Village also offers a variety of places to eat. You can enjoy lunch in the village at the Bullard Tavern.  The Oliver Wight Tavern and Village Café are located before entering the village, and require no admission fee to the village to eat at their establishment. There are also many restaurants & hotels located just outside the village, in the town of Sturbridge.

Old Sturbridge Village is a living museum of a time that should never be forgotten. It is a reminder of a time when people needed to work together as a community, know their neighbors, and relied on faith & family to survive the New England seasons & changing times of the 1800’s.

Maggie’s Thought for the Month: You Become What You Think

We live in a world where people constantly question if they look good enough, have all the ‘essential’ material things, and take the best vacations. Maybe we should place more emphasis on what we think.

Maggie was a thinker. Her mix of Border Collie and Shetland made her a great thinker. I was always amazed at how quickly she accomplished those doggie ‘brain games’ that was suppose to occupy your dog for hours.  Maggie would stare at a rabbit hole for hours- just waiting for the rabbit to appear-because she knew eventually it would come out. She would find the best spot in the yard to hear the ice cream truck before anyone in the neighborhood knew it was nearby. Maggie was a thinker- and her thinking resulted in positive outcomes.

As humans, our lives are myriads of ups and downs. At times, it may be easier to think that life is difficult and things will never get better. Maybe it is during our most difficult times that we must think positively. Our thoughts are revealed in the way we present ourselves, the way we treat others, and the way we respond to every day life events.

What will your thoughts make you become today?

‘The first place we lose the battle is in our own thinking. If you think it’s permanent then it’s permanent. If you think you’ve reached your limits then you have. If you think you’ll never get well then you won’t. You have to change your thinking. You need to see everything that’s holding you back, every obstacle, every limitation as only temporary.’  Joel Osteen

Travels with Sissy: Auburn, California-Where the Railroad Met the Gold Country

Does anyone ever tire from hearing about the gold rush? The fascination of people packing everything, or what little they had left, to travel west in search of finding gold and a better life.

The town of Auburn, California did not provide a long-term supply of gold. However, the town transitioned to become an important site for supporting the mining industry. The mining business created the Old Town area which consisted of stores, saloons, churches and schools. Auburn became the crossroads for trails leading to the Foresthill Divide, Coloma, Placerville, Colfax, Nevada City and Sacramento.

The Old Town of Auburn had its fair share of hardships, such as fires, businesses moving to the new Downtown area, and demolition of properties for the construction of Highway 40. By the mid-1950’s, the construction of Interstate 80 left Old Town with less land and more businesses leaving the area.

Fortunately, as years passed, people began to realize the importance of the town’s history. Visitors can learn about a time in our country when people traveled to the unknown to find their fortune, pioneers reinvented themselves to prosper where they were with what they had, and members of a community worked together  to survive this new land of opportunity called California.

 

Maggie’s Thought for the Month: One Day at a Time

 

The start of a New Year leads many people to believe they must make a new year resolution. These resolutions often last a month or two, and then are forgotten. Why not resolve to live every day the best you can- one day at a time.

Maggie, like most dogs, enjoyed the moment. When Maggie was in the car, she was captivated by all the sights, sounds, and smells at that moment; she wasn’t thinking about the final destination of the car ride. When Maggie heard the word ‘walk’, she assumed it was happening at that very moment. A dog owner would never say to their furry friend ‘let’s take a walk in one hour’, as this would result in your dog following you around the house for one hour with tail wagging and consistent yelping.

Every day brings something for us to appreciate. At the end of the year, a reflection allows us to realize the happy moments, difficult times, uncomfortable changes, exciting opportunities, dreams becoming reality, and unexpected  adventures- all create a myriad of memories we can clearly understand as necessary moments to create the person we are now, and the person we are continuing to become. One should not judge their life by their number of accomplishments, but by the number of opportunities they accepted to change and grow- recognizing these opportunities because they were living their best self every day.

Maggie lived every day being the best she could- even when it was her last few days. As humans, wouldn’t it be great if we could all do the same.

When I face the desolate impossibility of writing 500 pages, a sick sense of failure falls on me, and I know I can never do it. Then gradually, I write one page and then another. One day’s work is all that I can permit myself to contemplate. -John Steinbeck

Maggie’s Thought for the Month: Give a Gift that Inspires

Maggie and I want to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a New Year filled with love from family & friends.  Maggie and I hope you take some time to reflect on your blessings, and begin the new year with inspiration & determination to follow your dreams.

Please consider buying Maggie’s book- ‘Paws & Reflect’ for a holiday gift, or maybe even for yourself. I loved the emails sent to me this year from those the inspiration & reflection journal has helped to cope with the loss of their dog. The journal is also great for recording your daily thoughts- while reading a bit of wisdom from Maggie to help you thru the year! Visit my website at http://www.lindamassucci.wordpress.com to purchase Maggie’s book.

I’ve heard from many asking when the return of my travel blogs will happen. The answer is January 2019. I will post my travel blogs the middle of the month from January-June. I enjoy writing these blogs just as much as I enjoy traveling, so I am thrilled to hear you like them too!

The start of the New Year will include the finishing touches on my screen play- which is adapted from my book ‘Legacy of Grandpa’s Grapevine’. If you would like to purchase the book, and can’t find any copies on Amazon, please email me via my website at http://www.lindamassucci.wordpress.com   I am excited for this screen play to move forward with a possible contract in the near future.

Merry Christmas from Maggie & Me

 

 

Maggie’s Thought for the Month: Don’t Let Your Environment Determine Your Life

 

Everyone experiences a time in their life when they feel stuck, knocked down, or in a hopeless situation. The desire to take the easy way out and say ‘this is where I was born’ or ‘this is the hand I was dealt’ is not only unhealthy for you to accept, but also unhealthy to accept from others in your environment.

Maggie never liked crowds. If we went to the park, she preferred to play fetch with me at a far distance from the other dogs. She accepted a few dogs in her circle of friends, but they were similar in her preference for no rough play and enjoying the view on the hiking trails. If Maggie didn’t like the environment she was placed in, she got up and walked away.

As adults, when our environment becomes unhealthy, we often ask ourselves how we can change to adapt to the surroundings. Other times, we just accept the situation and start to believe that a continuous circle of drama is normal. Our healthy environment can be invaded by people who constantly share their life drama, as if to seek approval that it is normal to have constant turmoil. When we believe or someone in our environment believes this, it is often referred to as the need to play ‘victim’ and crave other’s sympathy.

Why do we think like this and how can we change our mindset? Maybe the solution is as simple as remembering what Maggie did- get up and walk away…no barks or apologies needed.

Maggie’s Thought for the Month: Don’t Confuse Your Comfort With Your Purpose

Life is a roller coaster- filled with heartaches, rewards, beautiful memories and events that challenge our faith. Every life experience allows the discovery of the true purpose of being alive.

Maggie was born with some health complications. After the first six months of her life with many veterinarian appointments, her health improved. Maggie enjoyed the next couple of years playing with the neighborhood dogs,  always spoiled by her owner and grandparents, and enjoying the nearby hiking trails every weekend. The last year of her life, Maggie frequented the veterinarian a couple of times per month and didn’t feel like playing any more.

Most people strive to have a comfortable life- as we think this defines success or achieving our purpose. When life is difficult, we ask why this is happening or how much more can one bare. During difficult times, it is hard to accept that every moment in life helps clarify our purpose in life. If we dwell on the hurt, we never understand the message.

Maggie lived five years on Earth. During that short time, she accomplished her purpose of teaching the importance of play, joyfully welcoming every day, and providing unconditional love to her family & friends. When we understand the journey of  discovering your life purpose isn’t always comfortable, we ask less ‘why me’ and more ‘what’s the message to be learned’.

Maggie’s Thought for the Month: Your Life Is Your Message

Every day we are making choices that eventually become past decisions. Once the choice is made, even if changed in the future, the choice can not be erased from our history.

Maggie did not have a lot of choices in life. Dogs don’t make the decision of who their owner is or where they will live. However, the decisions she did make seemed to always include how it may benefit her, if the decision would get her in trouble, and would the decision make her owner happy. For the most part, Maggie’s decisions provided all she knew with fond memories of a loyal dog, who occasionally made a few blunders.

People don’t have a choice of who their parents will be or the quality of their childhood. Unlike dogs, children grow up and gain an independence from their family. As adults, every person has the choice to make decisions to benefit their life, not get in trouble, and surround them self with caring individuals who they can make happy- and be reciprocated with love too. In the end, it is a collection of our life decisions that create our life story for those we leave behind.

Every day we are creating our life story. What will your message be?

Maggie’s Summer Update

Another year of writing about Maggie’s thoughts has passed. This year was extra special, because Maggie’s first book was published, ‘Paws & Reflect’. Maggie and I thank everyone for their kind words and support for making this book a reality. Maggie and I will continue to publicize the book on our Facebook page. A possible advertisement in a catalogue for pet supplies may happen within the next year.

The next few months will provide some opportunity to revise ‘Mama’s Bookends’; sequel to ‘Legacy of Grandpa’s Grapevine’. After this, the last story in the trilogy will be my writing project with a personal deadline set for June 2019.  After the trilogy is complete, publishing this as one collection will be my goal.

I am thrilled to have some opportunities to travel this year- especially with a new camera. I will increase my travel posts this year and into 2019. I will continue to send select travel blogs to magazines with the hopes of increasing my writing sales in this media outlet. Be sure to check my writing page on Facebook for pictures and updates on blog postings.

I made a change to my Facebook page, so please visit and like The Writings of Linda Massucci Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/lmmassucci/,  or my website to stay informed.  I will no longer have the Linda Massucci Facebook page public; this page will be exclusively for my family members.

Maggie and I want to thank everyone for a successful year with writing! Enjoy your summer! See you in the Fall!